Looking for a first time lesbian experience? what are some of the best sites, to look for a lesbian first time experience, preferrable a site that is free, or has free standard membership... meaning i dont want to have to pay to use the site.. |
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How can I make her feel comfortable (first time lesbian experience)? One of my guy friends (we're sexually involved only) is flying his ex-girlfriend down in the next few weeks and would like for us to have a 3some. She's never been with a girl before , so what are some ways he and especially I can make her feel more comfortable with the idea and ease her into it? He asked me to text her today and introduce myself- so any tips for our 'textversations' would be useful also. Thanks! |
| i guess just be really honest and genuine with her. its awkward and whether or not you say it, you both know it. hopefully he told her about it... i mean you can't MAKE her want to do it, but if you act like its no big deal and get her excited about it i'm sure she'll be more comfortable with it. you should probably try just getting to know her first and then "ease" her into the converstation. sounds fun though! |
First time lesbian experience!!!!Help me!!!? I think I'm falling for someone and scare to. She lives far from me about 3,000 miles away. We met up and had awesome and amazing sex. We both loved it. She said for her first time with a girl that it was great. She promised me it would work out between us and I belived her. But now that we are so far apart I miss her so much! What do you guys think? Can this work out? We hit it off so great,and I know she has some feelings for me, I just dont know if as deep as mine. Should I ask her? If I do maybe I'll scare her away. I need help please....anything will help. |
| Okay, first of all, this was her first time with a girl, she may not even know if she is a lesbian. Second, she lives very far away. You need to slow down and don't confuse great sex with true, undying, everlasting love. You shouldn't have deep feelings for someone who ya 'met up with and had amazing sex', you need more than that for a committed, loving relationship. Don't fall so far so fast, take it one day at a time and let love grow if that's what it's meant to do. But you need to be realistic about the distance and the short time you have known her. You may get hurt, but love is worth it. Blessings. |
My first time lesbian experience? well im in college and me and my roomate have this tiny one room dorm to ourselves and one day my roomate kissed me and i kissed her back she took my shirt off and sucked on my nipples and then went down to my pussy she ate me out for like 20 min and then we went into the shower and was continuesly fingered me till i could screa no more i think im a lesbian is this wrong |
Lilly
Many many girls ( and believe it or not guys too) experiment in college. This one experience does not make you a lesbian...
ask yourself.. did i like it??.. do i wanna do it again?... do i wanna do it again with my roommate?.... Do i still want men??
it is possible you are just bi-curious...... it is possible this will never happen again... but remember the most important thing is communication... TALK to your roommate... ask her the same questions i asked you... |
Is it ok for a gay guy to experience first time sex with a female lesbian? I would be eager to know because if its a straight girl i doubt that she will say yes. But if its your lesbian girl friend then she might say yes? Im not sure can someone tell me? |
to the above, it makes him bi-curious, not bisexual, he may find that it doesnt appeal to him.
now, i don't think there are any "rules" against it, but i'd be careful about having casual sex just like that, and bare in mind that as a lesbian, she's less likely to want sex with a male than a heterosexual woman would, your sexuality has no effect on this ( lesbian is a woman that isn't attracted to males, regardless of their sexuality, just as gay males aren't attracted to females, regardless of sexuality).
again, i dont think theres anythign wrong 'per se, but be careful about casual sex, and bare in mind that it's more likely she'll say no than yes. |
First lesbian experience? At what age was the first time you had a lesbian experience and was it full on, or just a brief moment? |
16
It was full on. My best friend spent spring break at my house.The third day she was there she started flirting with me.I thought nothing of it.I just figured that she was playing around.(she had always been that way) Later that night she crawled into bed with me and took control.It was magical, and I must say....It caught me completely off guard.That relationship lasted for the next 2 years. |
My first lesbian experience was bad cause i was not very attracted? to her and afterwards i felt like i had been raped. Anyway my subconscious mind has been looking for someone who can make up for the first experience but consciously i don,t want another lesbian realltionship. Unfortunately my subconscious mind makes me say suggestive things to attractive women.maybe a day or a week later i realise wot i have said eg your big (boobs), i just need some encouragement, just one time (sex)),etc etc how can i stop saying this stuff? |
| aww. im so sorry that happened. u were too anxious. if u want a better experience, wait for someone u are sexually attracted to. |
First time lesbian sex, I want it to be special? So my girlfriend and i have been together for two months now, we've been best friends for 5 years and we do love each other so much. We are both total virgins. I'm not entirely sure wat to do so in need of advice from some more experienced lesbians please. We have kissed and touched each other before and spooned but nothing morr than that. I really want it to be special. We spend a lot of time together we sleep at each others houses all weekend every weekend. So just some tips to make it special thanx :) |
First of all, I think what will make it even more special will be the date before your night-in. Take her out to a fancy restaurant, and maybe dress up. I can also suggest wearing some long sexy gloves, both of you, which will come in handy later (pardon the pun). Then you can have a nightcap with candles, champaign, and flowers.
As for the actually act... Go slow, kiss passionately, and... well I can't really explain it here. If you want more info from me, send me a message.
Have a wonderful night. |